Not just grief after death.
Grief connected to bodies, relationships, identity, injustice, illness, burnout, longing, aging, uncertainty, estrangement, and the changing world around us.
Many of us are trying to hold enormous sorrow inside lives that rarely make space for it.
Tending is an invitation to stop carrying it alone.
This gathering is designed to honor many relationships to grief — grief that is fresh, longstanding, unnamed, collective, ambiguous, or difficult to explain.
Grief has always been communal.
We live in a culture that often isolates grief. We are taught to manage it privately. Move through it efficiently. Translate it into productivity as quickly as possible.
But across generations and traditions, people gathered to mourn together to witness, sing, pray, remember, cook, sit quietly, tell stories, and accompany one another through sorrow.
We believe grief still longs for that kind of company.
Again and again, we have seen what happens when grief is given space, ritual, language, and community. Something softens. Something shifts. Not because grief disappears — but because people are no longer carrying it entirely alone.
June 18 - June 19, 2026
June 24, 2026
July 10 - July 22, 2026
July 13, 2026
July 23 - July 24, 2026
July 29, 2026
August 10, 2026
August 20 - August 21, 2026